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Thursday, February 7, 2013

Jobless

I was browsing through my old pictures because I wanted to see my pictures pre braces, but it leads to something else.

Reading my blog entries, suddenly I was taken aback when I was jobless  I received slurs and comments about "go get a job" . I admit that was one of my downest moment of life. Everyone would asked and negative perception would rot their minds into judging me as the unluckiest and laziest bum ever. 

Honestly, I was stressed out to the core myself, I was jobless for a full 7 months. If any of you are jobless now, I feel you! Every now and then people asked, how can I answer, I APPLIED BUT THEY DIDN'T CALL me yet! Can I just bombard the office and yell 'HIRE ME?' Even my then boyfriend was not supportive, every time we had a fight, he would touch about me being jobless. Not to mention comments in my blog who judged and intimidated my personal life to live a tai tai life, the comments were too horrible (as if as they know me!!!), but I strongly think they know me, they are people around me. I hope you'll get the taste of what I have been through soon.

Even mom nagged me everytime whether have I applied for jobs or not , she even questioned about my results. That time the whole world is against me, I only turned to Him, I even swallow sleeping pills so that I can sleep early because when not sleeping I think too much. I would think God is unfair, life is unfair. Astaghfirullahalazimm, I questioned Allah...........

Being where am I now, I am really thankful that I have gone through that because I appreciate what I have now. Buy what I want, not being sidelined anymore, because you'll be dismissed when you are jobless, pendek kata, YOU ARE NOT VALID! 

So friends, don't judge and comment to quick, we'll never know how we could switch shoes. Trust me, patience is the best remedy.


17 chemistry(s):

Joanne Juend said...

its stressful to be jobless BUT hey! we have studied for about 16 years we deserve to have a break to rest our minds.

it got job 2 months after graduation it was indeed equally stressful because i never get to rest (sadly) and we will continue to work until we retired.. kasian..

God has blessed you with a god job now :)

Aida The Pink Goddess said...

Alhamdulillah, i am VERY GRATEFUL of what I have now,

tq joanne.

BibiErr Karim said...

Even up till now, ada orang question what I did with my degree. Sedih. I got a job right after I graduated, and I resigned after a year sebab I know I can create my own path. Alhamdulillah, berbekal yakin sama rezeki & planning Allah...

Betul apa Aida cakap. We never know one day we could switch shoes.

pilot vs said...

kakak...saya pun jobless jugak...dah 7 bln camtu..memang stress..=(

Anonymous said...

I like this part:

'I only turned to Him'

yup Aida...Allah knows the best!
i've been in your shoes too..:)

Aida The Pink Goddess said...

Bbierr: kannn jgn pedulik apa org ckp
Pilot: bertabahlah
Ano: He is the greatest

Anonymous said...

Now,I'm jobless...pity me...

m&m said...

i also used to be being jobless..n know how it feels. but then, we can think, we can experience n we learn from experience. so here's my two cent: for me, there are two type of jobless person..

one type, jobless n completely jobless. not being hired by anyone. got much free time..yet do nothing about it. some don't apply for any job, some do try to apply... yet they're not productive, nor active...just waiting for any offer to come to their table. some even still live the life like when they have the "loan money"..being all lavish n posh. this type of jobless person usually the one that people around loathed so much..not bcz they hate those person..they just dislike the in-productivity attitude.

second type of jobless person, the one that also didn't get hired by anybody..some don't apply for job n some do apply...yet they still do much activity/ non-related-to-their-academic-achievement work in their free time. they didn't just sit n wait for job offer, they actually tired of just sit n decided to do something with their free time. this type of jobless person usually beneficial to so many people n gv help a lot that people around don't mind them being jobless coz they still useful in other way.

i hv a friend who's an excellent Ma holder, been jobless for a year. yet he collected n sell can n recyclable things when he feel so bored with his free time. n he offered to help his other working siblings n neighbors with their chores eg: babysitting, car washing, jaga kedai, party planning, replacement teacher..etc. job that people see as "x ngam" for him, yet he do it anyway. n he did applied for many post n hardly get any single replied. but when his rezeki finally came, he got two major irresistible offer .

we can't blame people for looking to "jobless person" in such "a way" bcz it's not their fault that we're being jobless. it's up to us to choose which type of 'jobless person' that we want to be if we're being jobless.. xkan nak minta kesian kat orang sekeliling plak kan. kena la kita usaha jg do something despite being jobless.

Aida The Pink Goddess said...

Well said m& m

Jihan said...

i was jobless for a full 2 years! Alhamdulillah dengan rezeki dan nikmat hari ini...Allah sebaik-baik perancang hamba-hambaNya. He knows the best!

Phoebe said...

Assalamualaikum. I am currently jobless. I think the biggest stress of all for me is money because I am a single mum. 2nd source of stress is how ppl view me. What you said is true Aida. When we are jobless ppl tend to label us as lazy and unproductive. They might not say it directly but its in their eyes and voice. Its double whammy when those close to us are the ones who express such thoughts.

Phoebe said...

Assalamualaikum. I am currently jobless. I think the biggest stress of all for me is money because I am a single mum. 2nd source of stress is how ppl view me. What you said is true Aida. When we are jobless ppl tend to label us as lazy and unproductive. They might not say it directly but its in their eyes and voice. Its double whammy when those close to us are the ones who express such thoughts.

Elya Roza said...

aida.. sabar k..insyaAllah rezeki tu akan datang..antara cepat dan lambat je ...:)
oh ya, im looking business partner for my business...we are using social media to generate income..(oops bukan log in facebook dapat rm100 tu tau..heheh)
no worries it's about TEAMWORK..starting income rm3000. if you are intrested to know the detail.. can contact me ya 019-63430274 :)


Aida The Pink Goddess said...

Eh saya dh ada keja la and i love my job,

Aida The Pink Goddess said...

Phoebe, be patient and yakin oadaNya jngn berhenti berdoa!

Elya Roza said...

ok babe...jgn marah k..just sharing :)

the woman said...

sedang jobless . syukur gilak sebab parents and gerek sik 'bisin' sebab i do things here and there to carik duit tetapi memang sikit la. LOL. enjoy while it last la dolok... kan. be positive.

suara makcik2 (nasip bukan genetically related pun)
eh ko lom kerja?
nolong mak ko rah kede jak la o (kede makan).
ko sik try kl? mesti ko dah keja nektok mun ko g sinun.
yala anak buah aku nang bagus lah.
ko sik try apply maktab? (lepas ijazah bla3)

i was likee. ee. hahaha. tp sikpalah. those ppl around me supportive jak. tok orang sik kenal tiba2 mok membebel. hu.

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